how should a person be?

 

Most people lead their private lives.
They have been given a natural modesty that feels to them like morality, but it's not.  It's luck.

They shake their heads at the people with their clothes off rather than learning about human life from their example,
but they are wrong to act superior.

Some of us have to be naked, so the rest can be exempted by fate.

Sheila Heti page 60  How Should A Person Be?